Baby Mamas

This is an anthem for all of the MEN who actually want to take care of their children. They try their best to see that child but the mother interferes. She's hurt maybe because of issues that were present when she was with the child's father or hurt because the relationship ended. Not only is she trying to hurt the father but she is hurting the child.

You know because things don't work out doesn't mean that you make him suffer. When you have a man that wants to do these things for his child, LET HIM!!! There are many women who don't get this treatment from their child's father and you go and do this?

Let's maybe take a look at the future. your child may come to blame you for the relationship that isn't there between him/her and their father. This child may become rebellious towards you and eventually move from you to his/her father's house. You don't want this.

Accept that he wants to be a father in his child's life. Let him come and pick them up every now and then and buy them things that you might can't afford. this will give you some time to get your mind right and move on to the next goal that you have.

Please, please don't be those type of mothers that can't afford to take care of your kids, but won't even let the father step in to do so and give you a little help. this type of man will even allow you to call him on that Friday night when you want to go hang with the girls and you need someone to watch yall child. He will jump to the occasion.

I don't know what else to say. Just listen to the song, mamas, and let it seep into your head and realize that when you have a god father to your kids, DON'T RUIN IT!!!!

Why Do We Hate????

While scanning the Internet in the mornings while drinking my morning brew. I noticed alot of females hate on each other. Some females are the first to call another female out because of the choices that she have made. Why is that? the hater has a lot of bad choices that they have made also, no one is perfect and don't think that you are.

This is why us as Black women can't get along. We hate on each other may it be a new hairstyle, new outfit, or even a new car. I think frankly, that it is JEALOUSLY! Why can't somebody have something nice without YOU hating? Get a life!! I think you should focus on you and your life before you try to judge someone else's.

You don't see much of this going on between men. Oh especially in the workplace! WHYYYYYY??? I just can't understand. Me personally, I will not judge you by how you look or what you got. I will judge you by your attitude. I have been judged a numerous of times by being called stuck up, whore, or even gold digger. I am none of those things. I just am not the first to say "hello". I will speak but not first. I am not a gold digger because if I were ohhh this blog will be more about money.

Yes, I work for my money, yes I have sex, and no I am not the first to speak, but that doesn't make me any of those things.

So ladies, explain to me why "we" as females (especially black females) do this so called hatin'?

My Life

I have been in the longest relationship that I have ever been in. Out of this relationship i bore 2 children for this man. I have never cheated on him. Well until recently. but let me work my up to the cheating.

I have always known that i was the woman of his dreams. i am a hard working woman and throughout the years he has had jobs...several of them, but about 3 months ago he lost his job. He told me it was bc he got laid off. I'm thinking yeah right. but since then its like he is not really interested in looking for a job. i am not depending on him but i think he is depending on me. i will not lose my house or get any of my bills turned off. and that is bc i have children that depend on me. bc of this i think that he thinks he can just take his time finding a job. i know that the economy sucks right now but he has had plenty job offers.

so right now it is getting very hard! as some of you women know. i like to relax and not be stresses and all he says is i am looking. i don't think you are if when i come home from work you haven't been anywhere. you could at least cook before i get home and don't start when i get home. the kids should eat b4 ten. right?

he calling me now, dammit i am at work don't be bothering me for nothing.

I'll blog the rest later

NewComer

I am going to introduce a good friend of mine who wanted to be apart of the SensualWoman blog. Her name is StuckInLove and she too will give you stories of her travels *WTF*. I hope you will learn to enjoy hers as we are both in a process of getting this blog up and moving and out to the Internet world.

StuckInLove will be posting a blog very soon. To Be Continued......

The First Time

I meet DL while working and when I first saw him I thought "he is handsome" and I wanted to know all I could about him. So before I left to go on my yearly family vacation, I had to break the ice. Not having anything to say instead of have a good day I hollered out "I'll miss you" how corny was that? I know, I know. But I couldn't think of anything else to say. I didn't think he heard me. Later I found out that he returned back to the office and handed a co-worker his number to give to me. I was like "wow" because I thought I wasn't his type.


Later after realizing that this year the family vacation wasn't going to happen, I decided to give DL a call. Well actually I send him a text but in the end we ended up speaking on the phone. Sooooo, we decided to meet up and when we did which wasn't planned at all (because this was one of those days I decided to just put on some juicy sweats and a tank but I was still fly). My first thought was damn I want to get "up on top" right now, but I must maintain being a lady....today.

We chatted up for awhile and got to know each other a little better outside of the workplace and decided to meet again. Before he left he gave me the best kiss I have ever had (I don't do kisses but this time I was all for it). His lips were so full and soft I just thought I would melt. He had to leave but of course I wanted to get "up on top" before he left but being the lady that I am. I LET him leave.

We continued to talk on the phone and we decided to meet because the majority of our conversations was all about sex and all the things that we would do to each other. Being as sex deprived that I am I wanted this man and this man am going to get.

We decided to have our first encounter on a weekday. He had a break away from his job and I was off that day. So we decided to meet at a house. The reason why I say "at a house" is because he had the key to his mother's house and she was out of town and we were both in the area at the time.

When I first entered I didn't even get the chance to look around, he was all over me. I loved it too! He quickly took off my jeans and laid me down and instantly like he was hungry dove into my womanhood. All I could think was keep it coming keep it coming! He then strapped up and entered me and I just stopped breathing. This is what I had been waiting for?! This man manhood was the perfect size and the perfect length. He had my legs in the air, behind him, behind me and as wide as they could get. It felt as if he was digging for something and just couldn't find it. The moans and oh shits that I was screaming must of got him because he came and when he did.....whew! He even came like a pro. We both cleaned and left. Small talk a peck on the lips and in the wind we were. He was late for work and I had to get home and tend to the kids.

That is only the beginning.......

Secrets

I decided that I have so many things that I have kept secret from I guess I could say myself and I would feel better if I told someone. Rather, this blog gets read or not I don't care I just know I will feel a lot more different than I do now. Also, it will give me more room in my secret vault to store more secrets, so that I can blog more! So while I set this up, i will start of with a to be continued.......